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• Japanese Etiquette 101: Eleven Things to Keep in Mind Before Travelling to Japan

Japan has a long-entrenched reputation of being a rule-following country, with an intricate system of customs and social mores that can often feel inscrutable to international travellers. Whether it’s how to dress, what side of the escalator to walk on, or where you place your chopsticks, there are several Japanese customs that have been talked about at length – sometimes reaching varying conclusions.  

As a foreign tourist, locals do not necessarily expect you to know all the intricacies and nuances of Japanese culture. Nonetheless, there are some common practices to keep in mind in order to navigate Japanese society as seamlessly as possible. Though in many senses the tip of an iceberg, below we’ve compiled a concise list of 11 essentials for those looking to enjoy Japan, while respecting the customs and culture.

1) PDA (Public Displays of Affection) & Greetings

Handshakes, high-fives, hugs, and certainly kisses are far less common as a form of greeting in Japan. Though certainly not frowned upon, people have different comfort levels when it comes to displays of physical affection or intimacy. Be mindful of others’ body language, and try to meet them where they are at. If you’re unsure of someone’s comfort level, simply bowing is usually the safest bet.

2) Mind the Volume

All of the noise you will encounter Japanese cityscapes - from the din of arcades and pachinko parlours, to supermarket jingles, to campaign trucks blasting slogans - may lead you to believe that Japan is a very loud country. However, on an interpersonal level, Japan tends to be rather soft-spoken. 

In addition to the obvious places such as museums, galleries, and libraries, this is especially true in settings such restaurants, and on public transit. These are often seen as places of respite on either end of the workday, where patrons are having their own conversations, or simply having a moment of contemplation for themselves. Chatting with friends is of course welcome, but try to be mindful of when things are getting a little too boisterous. This applies likewise to phone calls, with most public transport banning phone conversation outright.

3) Mask Up (Situationally)

Japan, along with other East Asian countries, has a longstanding tradition of masking, even prior to COVID. Whether during flu season, or on a case-by-case basis for those displaying moderate cold symptoms, masking has been encouraged as pro-social action in Japan for over 100 years.

You will find that precautionary masking is still the norm in a post-pandemic Japan. Although there is understanding that this is a personal choice, it tends to leave a better impression to put on a mask in crowded & confined areas if you are displaying any cold-like symptoms. 

4) Wait to be Seated

When in doubt, chances are there’s a line. Unlike some restaurants in North America, in Japan it is standard to make your presence known before taking a seat. Some popular restaurants such as sushi trains may even require you to take a number from a machine (these tend to be bigger chains, where the interface is multilingual).

In general, customer service in Japan is designed to be as efficient as possible for all parties involved, which means sparing servers the observation and frequent check-ins that are commonly expected at North American restaurants. Conversely, waitstaff can generally be hailed by either a call button, or simply blurting out “Sumimasen!” (Excuse me!), with a directness that some North Americans may find surprising. 

5) (The Customer is God, but…) What You See is What You Get

Japan enjoys a reputation for its stellar hospitality industry – the Japanese counterpart to “the customer is always right” taking it a step above, to “the customer is God”. This is why many are surprised to learn how rigid Japanese restaurants can be when it comes to seemingly simple modifications! In addition to prioritizing the efficiency mentioned previously, this is also a matter of quality control - whether artisans or fast-food workers, chefs have been trained to prepare dishes a certain way – and though it may seem extreme, some may fear that any deviance could compromise the food’s ideal form.

There are of course, some exceptions to the rule. Generally, if your modification is due to an allergy, staff will be certain to accommodate it (or else direct you to somewhere else that can). Notifying restaurants of any dietary restrictions in advance will spare staff the element of surprise, and potentially allow for a more thought-out alternative. This is especially the case with finer establishments, where chefs often relish the chance to express their skills and creativity. However, don’t be surprised if more fast-paced restaurants aren’t necessarily so accomodating. If this is enough to dissuade you from tipping, then no worries, as it is not a custom in the first place!

6) Walking and Eating … is it Really That Bad?

Tabearuki (or walking and eating) is a “taboo” within Japanese society which prospective visitors are often warned about.  However, those visiting the busy shopping arcades of Osaka and market districts like Shimokitazawa may be surprised to see several locals carrying snacks and coffee as they go about their day. So what gives?

In reality, it is largely situational. Avoid messy foods and lidless drinks, especially in crowded areas where you are liable to bump into others, or where others will need to swerve to avoid bumping into you. Whether amid cherry blossoms or during festivals, eating and dining outdoors is common - but even in these cases,  the general practice is to step aside from the main crowd as you enjoy your refreshments. Sidewalks tend to be wide, and smaller neighborhoods tend to have parks interspersed - if there’s no rush, why not stop and savour the moment?

7) Taking Out the Trash

Japan is constantly earning praise for its remarkable cleanliness, despite the abject lack of public garbage bins. Foreigners are often astounded to learn that locals, are in fact, taking it home and disposing of it themselves. Travellers who are away from their accommodation for long stretches can take comfort in the fact that most train stations and convenience stores have garbage bins (for truly upstanding social etiquette, you may consider making a small purchase when disposing of waste at the latter).

Of course, the process of waste disposal presents its own challenges – the only consistency being how complex the procedures are. Generally, most garbage bins will include slots for burnables (the majority of non-recyclable waste), non-burnables (such as glass, wire, small electronics), aluminum cans, and finally PET bottles (ie: the vast majority of plastic soft drink bottles). To score even more points, shed your PET bottle of its label using the perforated lines, and chuck the cap into the dedicated chute if available.

8) How Much to Blend In?

Self-conscious travellers may find themselves worrying about fashion do and do-nots when it comes to Japan. Smart casual, teeming on preppy looks that are associated with brands such as Uniqlo tend to be the default means of dress, with neutral colours such as black, white, beige and navy being especially common. With that said, there are no shortage of daring trendsetters as well, particularly in fashion-forward neighbourhoods such as Harajuku. Authenticity and originality is often admired, if not always embraced by the general public.

The one place where a more conservative style of dress may be wise in places of worship such as temples as shrines. With that aside, the best thing one can do is to be yourself, and let your character shine through in your behaviour, rather than your appearance. 

9) Bathing Etiquette – A Brief Rundown

In essence, the main thing to keep in mind is that showers are for cleansing, whereas baths are therapeutic and should be kept as pure as possible. This means that nothing but your meticulously cleaned, naked body should be entering the water!

Onsen (hot springs) and bath houses will have several sit-down showers upon entering the bathing area, typically equipped with stools, soap, and shampoo. Here, guests are required to get as clean as possible before entering the bath itself. Some onsen have a basin of kakeyu (water for pouring over one’s self) at the entrance, though this is largely a matter of tradition, and not a suitable replacement for a thorough shower. Those with tattoos may not be allowed entry to public baths, however, traditional ryokan will often have private baths where this policy does not apply. 

10) Photography & Drones

When it comes to photography, most Japanese etiquette falls under the realm of common sense. Do not take others’ photos without permission, including those in traditional attire, unless at a designated event for such purposes. Many shops and museums will also have ample signage - indicating where photography is or isn’t permitted.

Drone permissions can also be a very fraught area, with policies varying depending on the prefecture and property. In general, permission is required before flying a drone over any private property, or busy public areas. To avoid any flack, confirming with the relevant property staff or local koban is always a good way to go.

11) If you have Japanese - Use It!

Though it is quite easy to travel Japan without speaking the language, an effort is always appreciated, and will often be met with ample praise (regardless of actual ability). Encountering a foreign tourist who can speak Japanese of any level is seen as something of a novelty, and is often met with pleasant surprise among service staff. Japan is self-aware when it comes to the relatively limited usage of the language outside of its borders, and so showcasing this ability can be an expression of one’s appreciation and respect for the culture. Those looking to start learning, or brush up on their preexisting skills can consult JNTO’s language resources page .

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Tourist Guide to Japanese Etiquettes: Understanding Cultural Rules and Traditions

Welcome to our detailed guide on Japanese culture and etiquette. As a country steeped in tradition and custom, Japan presents an array of unique experiences for its visitors. Navigating these intricacies can initially seem daunting, which is why we, at Activity Japan, have crafted this comprehensive resource. From business norms to social conventions, this guide aims to equip you with essential knowledge to enrich your travel experience in Japan. So, let's delve into this fascinating cultural exploration.

Understanding Japanese Etiquette: A Deeper Dive into Cultural Rules and Traditions

Japanese etiquette, or 'saho,' goes beyond simple rules and formalities. It's an integral part of their society, woven into the fabric of everyday life and steeped in centuries of tradition. The significance of 'omotenashi,' or Japanese hospitality, cannot be overstated. A word without an exact translation, 'omotenashi' is all about wholeheartedly serving guests without expectation of reward. It symbolizes Japan's deep-rooted belief in respect, politeness, and selflessness. Whether you're visiting a traditional inn, dining in a local restaurant, or attending a tea ceremony, you're likely to witness 'omotenashi' in action, demonstrating the warmth and graciousness of the Japanese people.

Unveiling the Intricacies of Japanese Etiquette Rules

When it comes to Japanese etiquette rules, there are some broad, universally accepted norms. Politeness, respect, and consideration for others are expected in all interactions. However, the key to understanding these rules is recognizing their subtleties and nuances. For instance, bowing is a standard greeting in Japan. But did you know there are different bows for different situations? The casual bow ('eshaku') of about 15 degrees is a common daily greeting, while the respectful bow ('keirei') of about 30 degrees is used when you meet someone of higher status. And then there's the deepest, most respectful bow ('saikeirei') of about 45 degrees for the most formal situations. Mastering these intricacies may take time, but it's a rewarding endeavor that offers invaluable insight into the Japanese way of life.

Japanese Restaurant and Dining Etiquette

If you're a foodie, Japan is nothing short of a paradise. However, to make the most of the gastronomic adventure, understanding the local dining etiquette is crucial. In a Japanese restaurant , customers are often greeted with a warm 'irasshaimase' (welcome) upon entering. Responding isn't necessary, but a smile or a nod acknowledges the greeting. When it comes to the actual dining, a few things to remember are: not to stick your chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice (it's associated with funeral rites), avoid passing food chopstick to chopstick (another funeral custom), and refrain from rubbing your chopsticks together (it's considered rude). Remembering to say 'itadakimasu' (I humbly receive) before you start eating and 'gochisosama' (thank you for the meal) when you finish not only reflects good manners but also shows respect to the chef and appreciation for the food.

Japanese Business Etiquette: A Guide for Corporate Tourists

For the corporate tourists, understanding the norms of Japanese business culture can be a gateway to successful relationships. Japanese business etiquette is built around respect, humility, and meticulous attention to detail. Punctuality is highly valued, so it's essential to be on time or early for appointments. Business card exchange or 'meishi koukan' is an important ritual. When receiving a card, accept it with both hands, read it carefully, and treat it respectfully - it's a representation of the person giving it. Do not write on it or stash it in your back pocket, as it would be considered disrespectful. Similarly, when presenting your card, ensure that it's clean and unmarked, and offer it with both hands. Remember that subtle communication, non-verbal cues, and an appreciation for silence are all part of the Japanese business communication etiquette. They might seem small, but paying attention to these details can make a big difference in your business interactions in Japan.

Navigating Social Situations in Japan: Gift-Giving and More

Engaging in social activities in Japan can be an enriching experience, especially when you're aware of the etiquette involved. One significant aspect is the art of gift-giving. In Japan, the act of giving and receiving gifts, or 'omiyage', is a practice deeply rooted in tradition. It's customary to bring a gift when visiting someone's home. Gifts should be wrapped meticulously, and it's typical to downplay the gift when presenting it. Refusing a gift once or twice before accepting it is also considered polite, showing that you don't want to impose.

However, Japanese etiquette isn't just about grand gestures; it's also about subtleties. Personal space is respected, and physical contact, even something as simple as a pat on the back, can make people uncomfortable. It's important to bear these norms in mind to ensure a respectful and harmonious social interaction.

Ancient Japanese Etiquette: A Peek into the Past

Understanding modern Japanese etiquette is incomplete without a glimpse into the ancient norms. The traditional Japanese culture, with its rituals and ceremonies, lends a fascinating perspective into how the past continues to shape the present. Many aspects of the present-day etiquette can be traced back to ancient times.

For instance, the art of bowing, which is such an integral part of modern Japanese society, has its roots in the ancient warrior culture. It was a show of peaceful intent - as it was impossible to draw the sword when bowing. The respect for nature and the practice of cleanliness also stem from Shinto beliefs that date back centuries. These rituals, which started in ancient times, have been handed down through generations and continue to be a fundamental part of Japanese life. Understanding these practices gives us a richer and more profound appreciation of the cultural norms in Japan today.

The Many Layers of Japanese Culture

Harmony and respect: the pillars of japanese work culture.

Delving into the Japanese work culture, you'll discover an environment that prioritizes harmony ('wa'), respect, and hierarchy. Teamwork is favored over individualism, with each member working towards the common goal of the organization. Punctuality is not just appreciated, but expected, and humility is a virtue often embodied in the workforce. Navigating this landscape of mutual respect and collaboration can significantly enhance your understanding and experience of the Japanese work scene.

An Ode to Diversity: The Japanese Food Culture

To truly understand Japan, one must savor its rich and diverse food culture. This culinary journey takes you beyond sushi and ramen, introducing you to a multitude of flavors, textures, and cooking techniques. From the humble 'onigiri' or rice balls, a staple on-the-go snack, to the meticulous 'kaiseki', a traditional multi-course dinner that epitomizes the Japanese concept of 'omotenashi' or hospitality. Each dish is a piece of art, with as much emphasis on the aesthetic presentation as on taste, reflecting the country's appreciation for balance and beauty.

Vibrancy in Motion: Japanese Pop Culture

A vibrant exploration of Japanese culture would be incomplete without a dive into its dynamic pop culture. 'Anime' and 'manga,' the animated series and comics that originated in Japan, are now globally recognized forms of artistic expression, with themes ranging from fantasy to social commentary. On the other hand, 'J-pop' or Japanese pop music, with its catchy tunes and innovative production, has fans around the world. This energetic and creative landscape not only entertains but also provides insights into contemporary Japanese societal trends and youth culture.

Together, these diverse aspects of Japanese culture form an intricately woven tapestry that beckons further exploration. Each thread adds depth and color, enriching our understanding of what makes Japan such a fascinating country to discover.

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And there you have it—a comprehensive look at Japanese etiquette and culture! As we've discovered, understanding the customs, traditions, and cultural nuances of Japan is not just about avoiding faux pas. It's about appreciating the profound depth and beauty of a culture steeped in centuries of tradition, history, and respect. It's about forming deeper connections with the people you meet and the places you visit. It's about transforming your visit from a typical sightseeing tour into an unforgettable, enriching cultural experience. So, as you plan your trip to this beautiful and captivating country, remember these insights and dive headfirst into the real Japan, beyond the tourist brochures. Thank you for joining us on this journey, and we hope you find your Japanese adventure as unique, heartwarming, and unforgettable as the culture itself. Safe travels, friend!

Frequently asked questions

Q what is the significance of bowing in japan.

A Bowing is a traditional form of greeting in Japan, expressing respect, gratitude, and humility. Different situations call for different bows, varying from a casual nod of the head to a deep bow from the waist, reflecting the person's status or the formality of the situation.

Q How should I behave in a Japanese restaurant?

A In a Japanese restaurant, remember not to stick your chopsticks upright in rice or pass food chopstick to chopstick. Say 'itadakimasu' before eating and 'gochisosama' after finishing. Avoid making loud noises and respect the space of others.

Q What should I know about gift-giving etiquette in Japan?

A In Japan, gift-giving is a form of communication. Gifts should be given with both hands, be carefully wrapped, and it's typical to downplay the gift when presenting. Also, it's polite to refuse a gift once or twice before accepting.

Q How is punctuality viewed in Japan?

A Punctuality is highly valued in Japan, both in professional and social settings. Arriving on time or slightly early shows respect for the other person's time and is a critical aspect of Japanese etiquette.

Q What should I be aware of in Japanese business meetings?

A In Japanese business meetings, respect for hierarchy, attention to detail, and punctuality are important. The exchange of business cards is a significant ritual, and the cards should be treated with respect. Silence is often valued over unnecessary chatter.

Q How does ancient Japanese etiquette influence modern practices?

A Many practices of ancient Japanese etiquette still influence today's norms. For instance, the art of bowing originates from the ancient warrior culture. Respect for nature and cleanliness also stems from Shinto beliefs dating back centuries.

Q What is 'omotenashi'?

A 'Omotenashi' is the Japanese concept of providing detailed service, anticipating the needs of the guest even before they arise. It reflects Japan's deep-seated values of hospitality, respect, and humility, embodying the spirit of selfless giving.

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Proper manners and consideration towards others are highly valued in Japan, and misbehaving tourists are increasingly causing frictions. In order not to annoy or offend the locals, foreign visitors should be familiar with at least the basic rules:

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• Table manners
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Japan Etiquette for Tourists – The Do’s and Don’ts to Keep in Mind

Written by Christopher Newton on May 26, 2024

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Japan has its own special ways and traditions that might seem a bit confusing when you first visit. No need to worry, though! Everyone understands that you’re learning, and it’s perfectly fine to make mistakes along the way.

In this guide, we’ll share some easy tips on what to do and what not to do in Japan. This will help you feel more confident and have lots of fun on your trip. Let’s dive in and find out how to enjoy Japan like the locals do!

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Top 10 Dining Etiquette Tips in Japan

Top 10 public behavior tips, other japan etiquette tips.

• Say “Itadakimasu” Before Eating Before you start eating, it’s customary to say “Itadakimasu,” which means “I gratefully receive.” This phrase shows appreciation for the food and those who prepared it, setting a respectful tone at the meal. It’s akin to saying grace and is a fundamental part of dining etiquette in Japan.
• Proper Use of Chopsticks Chopsticks should be used properly, avoiding actions like pointing with them or sticking them vertically into rice, as these can be seen as disrespectful. When not in use, place them on a chopstick rest or horizontally across your bowl. Never pass food directly from your chopsticks to another’s, as this mimics a funeral rite.
• Slurping Noodles Slurping noodles is not only acceptable but encouraged in Japan, particularly with hot dishes like ramen or soba. This practice enhances the flavor and helps cool down the noodles as you eat them. Slurping is considered a compliment to the chef, indicating enjoyment of the meal.
• Don’t Walk While Eating Eating while walking is generally frowned upon, as it can be seen as sloppy and impolite. This practice is especially discouraged in busy or sacred areas. If you must eat on the go, try to find a quiet spot to stop and enjoy your food respectfully.
• Taste the Local Cuisine Embrace the local cuisine by trying different dishes, which can deepen your cultural experience. From sushi bars to street food like takoyaki, each region has specialties worth trying. Engaging with local food also shows respect and interest in the culinary traditions of Japan.
• Hang on to Your Trash With public trash cans rare in many places, it’s important to carry a small bag to store your trash until you find a place to dispose of it properly. This practice helps maintain the cleanliness that Japanese streets are known for. Being mindful of your waste also reflects well on tourists as considerate guests.
• Avoid Blowing Your Nose in Public Blowing your nose in public, especially at the dining table, is considered rude in Japan. If you need to blow your nose, it’s best to excuse yourself and find a restroom or private space to do so. This discretion is appreciated and shows sensitivity to those around you.
• Learn Some Useful Japanese Phrases for Dining Knowing phrases such as “Oishii” (delicious) or “Gochisousama deshita” (thank you for the meal) can greatly enhance your dining experience. These expressions of gratitude and enjoyment are well-received and can lead to warmer interactions with staff and locals. They also demonstrate an effort to engage with the culture.
• No Tipping Required In Japan, there is no tipping culture; excellent service is expected and provided without the expectation of extra rewards. Offering a tip can sometimes confuse or embarrass the recipient. Respect this aspect of the culture by adhering to local practices.
• Respecting Queue Norms at Eateries Patience and order are highly valued in Japan, especially when waiting in line at popular restaurants or street food stalls. Jumping the queue is considered very rude and can upset both locals and other tourists alike. Observing queue norms demonstrates respect for local customs and ensures a harmonious experience for everyone involved.

• Be Quiet on Public Transport Silence is golden on Japanese public transport, where many people use their journey time as a chance to rest or work. Loud conversations or phone calls are considered disruptive. Using earphones for any personal audio is also expected, as it maintains the quiet environment.
• Know How to Use the Escalator In cities like Tokyo, the unspoken rule is to stand on the left of escalators and walk on the right; however, this is reversed in Osaka. Observing and following these local norms helps avoid blocking the way for hurried commuters and maintains smooth traffic flow.
• Don’t Bother the Geishas and Maiko Geishas and Maiko (apprentice Geishas) are professionals practicing an ancient art, not tourist attractions. It’s important to respect their space and privacy. If you wish for a photo, keep a respectful distance or ask politely without expectation.
• Take Your Shoes Off Indoors In Japan, removing shoes before entering someone’s home, certain traditional accommodations, and even some restaurants is a sign of respect. It helps keep indoor areas clean. Always look for shoe racks at the entrance or follow the host’s lead
• Respect Quiet Zones In Japan, certain areas are designated as quiet zones, especially in public transport like the Shinkansen (bullet trains) and specific train carriages. Observing silence in these zones is crucial as many people use this time to work or rest. Avoid loud conversations and ensure your phone is on silent mode. Respecting these quiet zones shows consideration for the comfort and needs of others around you.
• Be On Time Punctuality is a serious matter in Japan; being late is often seen as a sign of disrespect. Whether it’s a train departure, a business meeting, or a casual meetup, try to be a few minutes early to show respect for other people’s time.
• Don’t Cut in Line Respecting the queue is fundamental in Japanese culture, whether at the subway station, in a store, or waiting for a taxi. Cutting in line can lead to public embarrassment and shows a lack of respect for the local customs.
• Observe Local Rules and Signs Always be attentive to signs and rules, especially in places of cultural and historical importance. These guidelines are often in place to protect the sanctity and beauty of locations that are valued by the local community.
• Avoid Phone Calls on Public Transit Keeping phone calls to a minimum and speaking quietly if necessary helps maintain the tranquil atmosphere typically found on Japanese public transport. Texting or using apps silently is a more acceptable way to communicate while traveling.
• Learn Basic Local Gestures and Signs Small gestures, such as bowing or nodding, can convey respect and gratitude without the need for words. Observing and mimicking these gestures as appropriate can help bridge the cultural gap and foster positive interactions.

• Gift Giving Manners If you’re invited to a Japanese home, it’s customary to bring a small gift, such as a box of sweets or tea. Gifts are often wrapped meticulously, and it’s polite to accept gifts with both hands.
• Handling Business Cards When receiving a business card, take it with both hands and take a moment to look at it before putting it away respectfully. This shows appreciation for the person giving you their card.
• Using Public Baths (Onsen) Before entering an onsen (hot spring), make sure to wash and rinse your body thoroughly at the washing area. It’s important to keep the bath water clean for everyone.
• Handling Money with Care When paying for goods or services, use both hands to give and receive money. This is seen as a sign of respect and care. It’s also polite to place the money in the small tray provided at cash registers, rather than handing it directly to the cashier.
• Photography Etiquette Always ask for permission before taking photos of people or private property. In some culturally sensitive areas, such as temples or certain museums, photography might be restricted. Look for signs or ask if it’s unclear whether taking photos is allowed.

This guide introduced the main etiquettes to keep in mind as you travel in Japan. 

Remember that being polite and following the rules shows respect and makes your trip even better, w hether you’re wandering through busy Tokyo streets, relaxing in a beautiful Kyoto garden, or taking a warm bath in an onsen.

So, keep learning about Japanese ways, be curious, and have lots of fun on your adventure. Japan has so much to show you!

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Etiquette in Japan: 40 Dos and Don’ts

When you visit another country for the first time, the experience can be like living under a whole new set of rules. You have to follow certain etiquette to avoid offending the locals and having a poor traveling experience. If you have a trip to Japan in the works, you may wonder, which etiquette rules should you know?

In Japan, you can offer handshakes upon meeting, but not kisses or hugs. You should also bow. It’s important to respect personal space and nod along during conversations to show you’re listening.

Those are just some general etiquette rules. What if you’re traveling to shrines, riding public transportation, or eating at a restaurant in Japan? How should you behave? In this article, I’ll cover etiquette dos and don’ts for all sorts of activities in this fascinating country.

Shrine Etiquette

When you visit a shrine, you can pray. Doing so is called oamiri . Obviously, you don’t have to pray if you’re not comfortable; you can just as easily visit to see the amazing architecture. No matter your reasons, when you go to a shrine, what should you do? What should you avoid? I’ll tell you.

DO Bow Upon the Torii Gates

Most shrines will have torii gates. You can’t miss these. They’re often red with a pronounced design. Here’s one.

You’ll find torii gates across Japan. When you come upon one, take a moment to bow. Don’t make this a pronounced gesture. Just a little bow will do. You’re showing respect this way. Now you can proceed through the shrine.

DON’T Go Through the Middle Path

Crossing beneath the torii gates to the central path on the way to the shrine might seem like a good idea. It isn’t. In Japan, only gods can use that path. That’s why you won’t see anyone else on it. Make sure you walk along the shrine’s side paths. You’re in the clear that way.

DO Purify Yourself If You Feel Comfortable

Upon entering the shrine, you might see a chozuya . Japanese people use this basin for purification. If you want to, you can do the same.

You’ll want to grab the ladle first, filling it to the brim with water. Do so slowly so you don’t spill. Next, cover your left hand with water. Then, repeat again for the other hand.

Move the ladle back to your right hand. Take some water into your left hand, cupping it so none leaks. Then put that hand to your mouth. Now you’ve cleansed your mouth. Never drink from the ladle or the basin, as that’s offensive.

To finish this ritual, move the ladle at an angle so the water can move along the handle and clean it for the next person. Then replace it in the basin and move on.

DON’T Forget to Put a Coin in the Box and Ring the Bell

Once you’re done with the cleansing part of your shrine visit, you’ll probably see a box. Here, you should put a coin in. However much money you have to give is sufficient, so don’t feel the need to add a large sum to impress anyone. It won’t work.

While some say using a five-yen coin could improve your chances of finding love, this is just an old myth. The reason it’s perpetuated? It turns out the term for a five-yen coin in Japanese, go-en , has a similar pronunciation to the Japanese word for “relationship.” That doesn’t mean you can’t use a five-yen coin anyway.

Some shrines have bells, but not all. If your shrine does, then you can ring it. Do this no more than three times. By ringing the bell, you notify the gods of your presence.

DO Finish by Bowing and Clapping

Before you leave the shrine, make sure you bow after you’re done with the bell. This time, you do want to do a more pronounced bow. Turn your body at a sharp downward angle, about 90 degrees. Do this two times.

Then, you should clap. Do this two times as well. Your left hand should be more pronounced than your right as you clap. Finally, bow one more time, again at a 90-degree angle. Then you can leave.

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Cab Etiquette

While many Japanese residents rely on public transport, you might hail a cab to get around Tokyo and other parts of the country. How do you ride in a cab while respecting etiquette rules? Let’s go over it now.

DO Use Taxi Stands

Taxi stands exist for a reason. If you spot one and you want a cab, wait there. It will come eventually. If you can’t stand the wait, you can always use a phone app to hail a vehicle.

DON’T Flag Down a Cab When It’s Not Safe

Can’t find any taxi stands? No problem. You can wave down taxi drivers, but don’t be surprised if they don’t always stop. They’ll only pull over if they can do so safely. Otherwise, they’ll ignore you. Don’t endanger the lives of others for a cab ride. Play it safe and smart.

DO Look at the Car Sticker for Payment Options

Only have cash on you? Do you have an IC card and wonder if you can pay with that? Before climbing in the vehicle, make sure you check the sticker on the cab door. There, you should see all the payment options. Most times, you can use cash, as well as IC cards and credit cards. Still, don’t ignore the sticker. You don’t want to get in the vehicle and try to pay with something the driver doesn’t accept.

Here’s one to remember, especially coming from the United States. You should not tip your driver. Trying to do so will create a very awkward, uncomfortable moment.

Train/Bus Etiquette

If you’re traveling through Japan, you’ll almost certainly use public transportation like a train, subway, or bus at some point. Knowing how to behave on these vehicles will make traveling a seamless, smooth process.

And by the way, if you’re going to Japan and want to travel around to see the country, you are probably wandering if you should get a Japan Rail Pass . If you need help deciding read this article: Is a Japan Rail Pass Worth it? (SPOILER: It is!)

DO Stick to Train Cars You’re Allowed On

Although it varies, some trains may only allow women. If you see a pink marking on the train platform, that means men cannot ride on these trains unless it’s before or after working hours (nine to five). These trains got implemented to cut down on inappropriate behavior towards women.

Here’s how to tell if a train only allows women onboard.

DON’T Get Pushy

While the Japanese generally prefer personal space, that rule doesn’t apply on public transportation like trains and subways. If you’re riding during rush hour or early on a weekday morning, expect the train to be packed. If you’re claustrophobic, maybe travel during less popular times.

DO Mute Your Phone

Either turn your phone volume all the way down or put your smartphone on vibrate while you’re on the train. You can even turn the phone off if you can live for a while without it. If your phone starts ringing in the middle of a crowded train and you answer it, you’ll break some pretty important etiquette rules.

DON’T Have Loud Conversations

Speaking of talking, while it’s not prohibited, train riders prefer you talk quietly. Please follow the rules.

Restaurant Etiquette

You’ve gotta eat. That means that, at some point on your travels, you’ll dine at a Japanese restaurant or several. How do you avoid embarrassing yourself and your guests when at one of these establishments? Just follow these etiquette rules.

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DO Sit the Right Way

While it varies from restaurant to restaurant, some establishments have dining tables quite low to the ground. That means you’ll have to sit on a tatami mat rather than in a chair. Women should move both legs together and off to the side when dining informally. Men can cross their legs, but women should not. If it’s a formal situation, then kneel, aka seiza .

DON’T Forget to Honor Your Main Guest

The main guest or person of the greatest importance gets their own honor or kamiza. They shouldn’t sit near the entrance, but rather opposite it. The only time that’s not true is if the restaurant has a recessed area or tokonoma. Then your guest should sit near this.

DO Use the Towel, but Not on Your Face

Oshibori or steamed towels help you get clean before dining. That said, you should only use them on your hands, not your face or any other parts of your body.

DON’T Eat or Drink Before You’re Allowed To

Practicing gratitude before and after a meal matters a lot in Japanese culture. You cannot and should not eat before the table expresses its gratitude. Often, the waitress or a guest will indicate when it’s time to eat.

The same applies for drinking. There’s a salute, known as kampaii , that guests will use. Only then can you drink. Also, make sure you hold your glass the right way. If you’re not the main guest and you’re a man, then keep your hand under your glass. Women usually do this, but men of lesser roles do so as well to show respect.

Need a refill? Make sure someone else pours your drink for you every time.

DO Know Basic Dining Rules

As you go through all the courses in a Japanese meal, here’s how to handle each one:

• When using a bowl, grab it with a single hand. Then, bring the bowl to the mouth. Don’t keep it on the table.  
• As you eat, do so in single bites. It’s not appropriate to cut or bite pieces of food.
• Never put the food higher than your mouth. If you drop food, don’t try to grab it with your hands.
• When eating soup, refrain from using a spoon. You’ll want to enjoy the soup with chopsticks instead.
• Surprisingly, you can slurp without offending anyone.
• If you have clams or any other food with shells, keep them in the same bowl they came in.
• Never combine soy sauce and wasabi in the same bowl. Also, always make sure there’s some soy sauce leftover, even if it’s just a touch.
• If the guest offers a tea ceremony as part of the meal, prepare to take your shoes off. Don’t talk either. 

DON’T Leave Your Chopsticks Willy-Nilly

If you don’t know how to properly use chopsticks, make sure you practice. Don’t linger near food with your chopsticks, especially communal food. Know what you want to eat and grab it.

You have a chopstick stand, known as a hashioki ,at your table. Use it. You shouldn’t have conversations while holding chopsticks. You also don’t want to put the chopsticks standing up in a bowl. This has funeral connotations to the Japanese, so you will upset your dinner guests.

DO Indicate You’re Done Eating

After enjoying a delicious meal, clean up after yourself as best you can. Yes, even at a restaurant. Make sure everything’s as close to being where it originally was.

Once again, don’t tip at restaurants. You also shouldn’t have to pay for dinner or another meal if you didn’t invite everyone out.

Street Etiquette

Whether you’re strolling through Tokyo, Roppongi, or any of the other beauteous cities and areas across Japan, make sure you keep these street etiquette rules in mind.

DO Know Some Japanese

You can’t expect everyone in Japan to speak English. At hotels and in cabs, the staff might have a decent grasp on the language. Considering you’re traveling to a place where everyone speaks Japanese, you should learn some of the language yourself.

Even if you just master a few basic phrases, that’s better than nothing.

DON’T Leave Litter and Messes on the Streets

Most Japanese streets don’t have trash cans and bins like you’d see in the US. This is to keep the country clean. If you have trash, you might want to bring a plastic shopping bag with you for keeping it. Otherwise, you’ll have to carry it on your person for quite a while.

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DO Finish Eating and Drinking in a Restaurant or Other Establishment

Since you’re not permitted to bring drinks and food with you on most city streets, make sure you’re totally full and not thirsty before you leave a restaurant or establishment. If you feel thirst or hunger strike, you’ll have to use a vending machine or duck back into a café or other establishment for some refreshment.

DON’T Stare at People

Although you’ll take in amazing wonders the first time you visit Japan, you shouldn’t spend too long looking at one any person. Never stare, as it can make people feel uncomfortable, especially shier residents. Keep to brief moments of eye contact only.

DO Use an Umbrella Sleeve

If you’re in Japan and it rains, you can bring an umbrella and use it with no issue. The trouble comes if you’re in a tighter area, such as a train, subway, or bus. You don’t want to shake rainwater all over passersby.

If you visit a department store or restaurant and they give you a sleeve for your umbrella, make sure you use it. These plastic sleeves will keep your wet umbrella tidy and prevent splashes and wet messes. You’ll also avoid getting water on the floor, which can be hazardous to these businessowners.

DON’T Smoke Unless in Designated Areas

If you smoke cigarettes, you’ll have to find designated smoking areas in which to light up. You’re not often allowed to smoke and walk at the same time, either. There’s lots of risks to doing so, such as accidentally burning someone or even starting a fire if you’re not careful. If you do get caught walking and smoking in some areas of Japan, you could face a fine or other legal trouble.

You’ll know when you can and can’t smoke by looking at nearby signs. Keep and eye out for them! I also recommend you read this short article I wrote on smoking in Tokyo so you’re fully prepared before your trip.

DO Keep Your Hands Open When Gesturing

If you’ve noticed that it seems like no one points in Japan, this isn’t accidental. This gesture, although innocent to us, appears menacing and threatening to Japanese residents. Make sure you keep that in mind as you travel. Even if you see something really cool, never point to it.

DON’T Blow Your Nose

Sorry, but if you’re out and about, you can’t blow your nose. That goes for walking Japan’s streets, eating at restaurants, and visiting other buildings like museums or shrines. You have to either go to your hotel room or a local bathroom. There, you can blow your nose to your heart’s content.

When traveling to Japan for the first time, you’ll feel a mixture of excitement and nervousness. You’re so excited to see the country, but you’re nervous because you don’t want to say or do anything wrong.

The following etiquette rules make great starting points for modifying your behavior. Remember that no one expects you to memorize every single rule and act perfect all the time. It’s okay if you mess up. As long as the error isn’t too egregious, you probably won’t deeply offend anyone. They’ll appreciate that you’re trying.

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Japan Travel Etiquette: 10 Dos and Don'ts in 2022

Japan is famous for its customs and etiquette, and sometimes a stay in a new country can offer some specific challenges and surprises! Below is a list of 10 helpful dos and don'ts for those visiting Japan.

Japan is often regarded to be a country with many specific social rules and etiquette practices, as well as sometimes offering some unexpected surprises to first-time visitors!

For those new to life in Japan, it can seem like a very daunting world to navigate! But don't be discouraged! We've compiled a list of 10 helpful dos and don'ts for new visitors to the country, which will hopefully help you to get by without issue and enjoy your stay to the fullest!

1. DO Wear a Mask When Possible

Why Mask Wearing is Still so Important to Many in Japan

The wearing of face masks has always been a common habit among people in Japan, particularly during bad flu seasons. However, it may be surprising for some visitors to see just how many people still adhere to mask wearing rules in 2022.

And although the Ministry of Health has advised that masks are not always necessary outdoors, and that care should be taken to avoid heatstroke, it is still common to see large numbers of people outside wearing masks.

One key aspect of mask wearing in Japan s the concept of respect. Masks are not so much about protecting oneself, but also about illustrating to others that you are conscious of and concerned about their health. Refusing to wear a mask in an indoor space can be perceived as you communicating to others that you do not respect them or care about their health.

The concept of respect is a major cornerstone to many aspects of Japanese culture, and it is good to be aware that people living in Japan may be particularly sensitive to those around them not following certain rules in public; mask wearing being a major one at this moment in time.

2. DON'T Make Phone Calls on Public Transport, and Be Careful of Your Speaking Volume

Though it may not seem to be such a huge offense to many outside of Japan, speaking on the phone while on the train is a big no-no, and is considered to be pretty rude. This includes long train journeys, but don't worry; bullet trains and certain long distance express trains will have special areas between cars where commuters can take important calls.

In general, it is considered to be uncourteous to others to speak loudly on trains and in many other public spaces, and so it is best to take care regarding your speaking volume and try to match it with those around you if possible. Apartment walls tend to be quite thin, so even at home it's good to take care not to shout!

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3. DO Be Mindful When Dining (and Be Careful With Your Chopsticks!)

There are some specific etiquette rules while dining in Japan (particularly in relation to chopsticks!) and knowing the reasons behind these rules can make them much easier to remember!

Two famous rules are not to leave chopsticks standing upright in food (particularly in a bowl of rice), and also to never pass food directly between different pairs of chopsticks. The reason for both of these rules is actually related to death and funeral customs.

When leaving a bowl of rice as an offering for the deceased, chopsticks are placed standing upright. Regarding the passing of food, it is reminiscent of how cremated remains are passed between people as part of the cremation ceremony.

It is also considered impolite to rub or roll chopsticks together (done by some to remove splinters), as it can be considered an insult to the host or owner regarding quality.

Slurping noodles is totally ok, and is considered a good way to cool them while eating, as well as get a better experience of the taste (it's not mandatory though!)

Another point worth mentioning is tipping at restaurants, as it is not needed! As a general rule, tipping is not required in Japan, because the service charge is already included in the bill. Your server may even be quite shocked to see a tip, so it’s better not to put them in an uncomfortable situation by insisting on giving one!

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4. DON'T Layer on the Fragrances

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There is actually a term in Japanese that translates as "smell harassment" . Though the phrase is often used to refer to intrusive body odors, it also covers strong perfumes and even strong clothing detergent or fabric softener scents. There seems to be a general preference among many in Japan for lighter fragrances and more natural scents. This is particularly true while dining with others.

One major reason for this is that wearing perfume is considered to actually spoil the experience of eating at certain types of restaurants. A lot of Japanese cuisine uses relatively subtle flavors, and a strong smell is believed to affect the taste and overall experience significantly.

Sushi in particular is best consumed away from strong smells, including the scents of cigarette smoke and perfumes. It is also considered to be impolite to risk bothering other diners by using strong fragrances in their presence. For this reason, it's generally better to avoid wearing strong perfumes while dining out.

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5. DO Enjoy the Nightlife!

Nomikai, Izakaya, Karaoke, and the Importance of Letting Loose and Having Fun

With its many specific etiquette practices, Japan is sometimes stereotyped as being an extremely strict country of.rules and formal protocol. With that image in mind, many visitors are taken aback when they see how much many people in Japan enjoy fun and nightlife!

There are many young people living in major cities such as Tokyo and Osaka who live a kind of work hard, party hard lifestyle, and this can definitely be seen at night in places such as Shibuya and Dotonbori . For many working people, activities such as drinking and karaoke are considered to be vital ways to bond and relieve stress.

Japanese drinking gatherings, or "nomikai" are actually deeply connected with work culture and are a key place where colleagues connect. Important business decisions can sometimes be made at these times. There is even a term in Japanese known as “nomicommunication” - communicating with the help of drinking - and alcohol is a major social lubricant for many.

Izakaya , or Japanese-style pubs, are major places for socializing in Japan. These establishments are popular venues for "nomikai". But even if you don’t drink, you can still enjoy the fun atmosphere and great food on offer in many izakaya!

Another hugely popular way for people to bond and have fun is karaoke . Singing in public may seem like a type of social torture for those not used to it, but in Japan it’s a very normal pastime. Shame and embarrassment go out the door once a session has started!

Though it may seem scary to some, karaoke is an incredible way to learn about Japanese history and culture through music (and about other countries too!)

Groups of people doing karaoke together will often be intergenerational and may be from many different backgrounds, giving you the opportunity to listen to songs from various eras and places that you may not have discovered by yourself. You may find yourself discovering the beauty of Enka in a way you hadn’t expected to at the beginning of the night!

Letting loose and having fun in a social setting offers an important way to connect with others, and can help visitors to understand the culture on a deeper level.

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6. DON'T Make Karaoke a Competition!

Continuing on from the previous point; karaoke is mainly about letting loose and having fun, and shouldn't be about competing with one another! And it certainly shouldn't be about judging others!

The main goal in karaoke is to create a great atmosphere for everyone, where nobody feels unwelcome or embarrassed, regardless of singing ability. People should also avoid hogging the mic, and ensure that everyone who wants to sing has the chance to do so!

The people who are most fun in karaoke are frequently not the best singers - it’s all about having fun and ending the night with a great feeling.

7. DO Be Careful to Take Off Shoes; Both in Homes and in Specific Public Spaces

As a general rule, shoes should not be worn in any private homes or apartments. That includes if you choose to rent a place or stay in an Airbnb while in Japan.

It’s not just homes though; and although the rules may seem intuitive to those living in the country, they can sometimes be a little unclear and get a bit confusing to those not accustomed to them. For example, some restaurants will require customers to remove shoes, while others won’t. Likewise with certain hotels and tourist attractions. Even some doctor’s offices will have this rule, while many others won’t!

As a general guideline, if you see a "getabako" (a shelved area for storing shoes) at the entrance, then it is almost certain that you will be required to remove your shoes at that particular establishment.

A lot of higher-end izakaya restaurants will have an area at the entrance where shoes are permitted but will have a locker section for storing shoes before entering the main dining area of the restaurant. Though staff will generally inform customers of this when they enter, it is good to be mindful, as some people walk through without noticing!

Larger public baths usually have a similar setup with shoe lockers; however staff may not be waiting to instruct customers regarding what to do, so it’s best to pay close attention. Smaller public baths will usually require all guests to remove shoes at the entrance and use a "getabako".

Another good guideline is whether the building is a Japanese-style one. In general, all Japanese-style buildings will require customers to remove shoes indoors, particularly on tatami flooring .

This rule must be strictly followed in Japanese-style accommodations such as ryokans , as it is essential not to damage the flooring. It is of particular importance to remove shoes when entering historical buildings - there will usually be staff at entrances assisting with this.

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8. DON'T Eat or Drink in These Places (and Try to Avoid Eating/Drinking While Walking)

Many famous temples and shrines such as Fushimi Inari in Kyoto have small shops and stalls selling souvenirs lining the streets leading up to the temple/shrine. Many of these shops sell delicious food and snacks such as grilled mochi and beef skewers, which seem like they're perfect for eating while walking around the area!

But be careful; it's actually not permitted to eat on the grounds of temples or shrines themselves, and many of these shops will have a small seated area nearby specifically for enjoying food and drinks.

Eating and drinking while walking, in general, is seen as a bit rude, and most people will find a spot to sit to enjoy their food, often close to the vendor.

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9. DO Be Mindful if you Have Tattoos (and Why It’s Important)

Japan's relationship with tattoos is somewhat complex. Body art has a long history in the country and it is home to some of the most beautiful and iconic tattoo art styles in the world. Yet attitudes towards tattoos remain relatively conservative, and having obvious tattoos can even make it difficult to enter specific public places.

One reason for negative perceptions is a historical association between tattoos and gangs. The Yakuza has had a particular tradition in regard to tattoos, and this has also been cemented in the media.

Most of those holding strong negative views regarding tattoos tend to be from older generations, and not everyone shares these feelings.

However many public places will have strict rules regarding tattoos in order to not risk upsetting any of their clients, and public baths, in particular, can pose issues. Some gyms, public pools, and hot spring resorts may also have strict rules.

One way around this is to cover tattoos when possible with large band-aids. Another is to be aware of specific establishments which may have rules regarding tattoos, and to check beforehand to avoid any potential problems.

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10. DON’T Underestimate the Summer Heat (and Humidity)

Japan is known for having one of the most uncomfortable summers in Asia, but many don’t realize just how harsh it can feel until they arrive!

The temperature itself is comparable with many other regions in the Northern Hemisphere, often staying around 30°C - 35°C (86°F - 95°F).

The main issue is the high humidity; with levels often rising above 80% in the hottest months. This combination of relatively high temperatures and extreme humidity creates conditions that can make going outdoors literally feels like stepping into a sauna.

Kyoto’s summer is famed for being particularly brutal; the region is located in a basin, surrounded by mountains, meaning there is no coastal wind to offset the temperature or lower the humidity. Despite this, the region sees droves of tourists every summer, many ill-prepared for the climate, and struggling to enjoy the sites in the oppressive heat.

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It’s not all terrible though; Japan is beautiful in all seasons, and not all regions experience such unpleasant conditions. Many northern regions like Hokkaido and mountainous areas such as Karuizawa are far more comfortable in summer. And for those intent on visiting Honshu in summer, all is not lost!

The key is to know how to cope with excessive mugginess. Expect to sweat, and always carry water with you (avoid carbonated or sugary drinks, as they may dehydrate you more!) Make sure to spend ample time in air-conditioned spaces. Try to avoid spending too much time in the midday sun, instead venturing outdoors mostly in the earlier morning hours and in the cooler evenings.  Always be aware that heat stroke is a real risk in these conditions, and avoid over-exerting yourself!

Summer is a beautiful time in Japan, so make sure you can enjoy it to the fullest by following these steps! And if you really don't do well in the heat, spring, fall, and winter are incredible times to visit!

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The most important thing to remember during your stay is to respect others, stay safe, and enjoy your time in Japan! Though you may find some things a little surprising at first, it certainly doesn't change the fact that it is an amazing country and there is so much to enjoy!

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Japanese Etiquette Tips: Do’s and Don’ts for International Travelers

June 14, 2024

When traveling to a new country for the first time, “culture shock” is expected. You may be especially intimidated if you have heard that there are a lot of “do’s and don’ts” for Japan. Consider these tips for traveling to Japan, and you will be sure to fit right in this warm and inviting country.

Meeting and greeting tips

When in Japan, it is polite to bow to the other person when you meet them, when you are saying thank you, or when saying goodbye. If someone bows to you, lean forward and incline your head in return. There are many complexities to the bowing ritual – such as how far, how long, and how many times to bow – but as a tourist, you won’t be expected to know these details . Simply making the effort will endear you to others.

Gifts and business cards

In formal settings, such as on a business trip, it is customary to exchange business cards or name cards when you meet someone. In addition to cards, you may want to bring some small souvenir gifts from your home country. Giving a gift is a sign of appreciation , especially if you are staying in someone’s home. Choose something small and unique to your homeland, such as a candy or key chain. Always use two hands rather than one when giving or receiving gifts or cards.

Clothing tips

Remove your footwear.

When entering private homes, temples, traditional style accommodations , and even many restaurants and tourist sites, you will be expected to remove your shoes. You will usually see shelving to place your shoes on. You may by given slippers to use while indoors.

If the restaurant or accommodations include areas of tatami , or woven straw matting covering the floor, you will need to remove the slippers before walking on the tatami. You may leave the slippers at the room’s entrance.

Also, separate slippers may be provided for use in the restroom . Leave your original slippers outside the bathroom door, and change back into them when you exit the bathroom.

Tip : while traveling in Japan, wear shoes that you can remove and put on quickly and easily. Don’t forget to wear clean socks!

Eating and drinking tips  

Table manners.

Good manners involve words of appreciation before, during, and after the meal. Before you chow down, remember to say i-ta-da-ki-mas , the equivalent for “bon appetit” meaning, “I will receive.” During the meal, say oi-shii to indicate that you are enjoying yourself.

Afterwards, say go-chi-so-sa-ma de-shi-ta to express appreciation for the meal. Don’t be surprised to hear others slurping their soup or noodles – that is acceptable. It’s fun, too, so give it a try while in a land that welcomes noisy eating!  

Using chopsticks

If you’ve already gotten the hang of eating with chopsticks, that’s good. Remember, though, that your mother told you not to play with your food – similarly, in Japan there are certain actions that are considered ‘playing’ with your chopsticks . Avoid using them to scratch an itch, signal to a waiter in a restaurant, point at someone, spear a piece of food, or drum on the table.

Also, don’t cross the chopsticks , leave them standing up in your bowl, and don’t use your chopsticks to ‘hand’ a piece of food to someone else’s waiting chopsticks. The latter are related to funeral rituals and are therefore not appropriate for mealtimes. If taking food from a communal serving dish, use the ‘wrong’ end of the chopsticks, opposite the end you put in your mouth.

Tipping in Japan

Tipping is not customary in Japan . If you leave a cash tip on the table, the waiter may not understand it and chase you down to return it. Money is also seldom passed from hand to hand. When paying for an item, you will place the cash in the tray provided. Your change will likewise be placed in this tray.

Temples and Shrines

Tours are offered at many Buddhist and Shinto shrines, and you may see these as mere tourist attractions – but remember, these are religious sites still used for worship . Be respectful when visiting a temple or shrine – don’t enter off-limits areas, speak softly, and dress respectfully (i.e., don’t wear your swim suit).

Religious rituals

Most shrines require ceremonial washing before entering. Use a ladle to pour water over your hands. Catch some of the water in your hand and rinse your mouth – spit the water onto the ground , never back into the water basin.  

Trains and public transportation  tips

Mobile devices.

Talking on your cell phone in the confined spaces of a train or bus is considered rude. If you must use your phone to text message, turn the ringer to silent mode . Also, speak quietly to your travel companions.

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Queues and lines

In busy train stations, bus stations, and airports, you will be expected to form an orderly line . Don’t push ahead, and pay attention to directional lines painted on the floors.

In case of illness

Do not blow your nose while in a public place, and try to avoid sniffling or sneezing. If you are sick, purchase and wear a surgical mask to avoid spreading germs to others.

Also read : Japanese trains etiquette

The language barrier  

While you may very well meet people who speak the English language, don’t assume that everyone will. Instead, learn some helpful phrases in Japanese , such as sumimasen , meaning “excuse me” or “sorry,” and arigato , which means, “thank you.”  

Even if you make a mistake or forget what is expected in a certain situation, always be kind and patient with yourself and others around you. The locals will likely be pleased with your efforts at mastering Japan etiquette, even when imperfect.

To enhance your language skills , consider various methods of learning some Japanese before your trip. For instance, you can use language apps, watch Japanese movies with subtitles, or listen to Japanese music and podcasts if you’re more advanced.

If you’re going to stay in the country for a while, another very effective way to deepen your understanding of Japanese culture is by taking formal classes . Attending a language school in your local area or opting for the convenience of online classes can be incredibly beneficial.

Services like Coto Academy offer comprehensive courses tailored for different proficiency levels , making it a great resource for learning Japanese. Working with experienced instructors and immersive teaching methods can significantly boost your confidence and ability to communicate effectively in Japan.

But remember, communication is not just about words. Non-verbal cues, such as bowing, maintaining appropriate body language, and understanding personal space, also play a significant role in Japan. By combining basic language skills with an awareness of these cultural nuances , you’ll find your interactions much smoother and more enjoyable.

Are there any cultural faux pas I should avoid in Japan?

When visiting Japan, it’s also important to be aware of certain cultural faux pas to avoid offending locals or embarrassing yourself. Here are some key points to keep in mind:

1. Using toilet slippers

Many places provide special slippers for use in the bathroom . Be sure to switch to these slippers when entering the bathroom, and remember to switch back to your regular slippers or shoes when you leave[

2. Eating and drinking while walking

It is generally considered sloppy to eat or drink while walking . Instead, find a place to sit and enjoy your food or drink to avoid making a mess.

3. Handling business cards

When receiving a business card, accept it with both hands and take a moment to look at it before putting it away. Avoid stuffing it into your pocket or leaving it behind, as this is seen as disrespectful.

4. Blocking the escalator

In Japan, it’s customary to stand on one side of the escalator to allow others to pass. In Tokyo, for example, people stand on the left and walk on the right.

5. Taking photos without permission

Always ask for permission before taking photos of people , especially strangers. Respect “no photography” signs when you see them.

6. Public displays of affection

Avoid PDAs such as hugging or kissing, as these are generally frowned upon in Japanese culture.

7. Jaywalking

Always use designated crosswalks and wait for the signal to cross. Jaywalking is not only problematic but can also result in fines.

By being mindful of these cultural nuances, you can show respect for Japanese customs and make your visit more enjoyable for both yourself and the locals 🙂

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Top 7 Etiquette Tips For Travel in Japan

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Top 7 Etiquette Tips For Travel In Japan by Rob Dyer

Don't be that loud foreigner.

There’s a phrase in Japan that gaijin (foreigners) are often given a ‘gaijin pass’ to make mistakes. People will be understanding. However, observing a few key customs will help you blend in with the locals.

The subject is so extensive that there are several books available on the topic. But, for starters, here's my Top 7 Etiquette Rules to follow in Japan ...

#1 Be considerate and blend in

Attempting to blend in with the locals in will always be welcomed in Japan

Japanese society often means foregoing some personal expression so as not to stand out. The Japanese have a saying: “ The nail that stands out must be hammered down ”.

Many people do not speak while using public transport, even if they are travelling with friends or family members. If you do speak, do so quietly so as not to disturb other passengers.

Many people do not speak while using public transport

Few things make me wince more inside, than seeing a loud foreign tourist, stomping about, gesticulating wildly, practically shouting as they speak.

Don't be that loud foreigner who stands out!

Be considerate of others (surely something we all do everyday anyhow?) and try to blend in as much as possible. Using this as a general guiding principle will serve you well on your travels in Japan.

#2 Removing shoes indoors

Remove shoes when entering homes, hotel rooms, restaurants, changing rooms

Bowing aside, perhaps Japan's best-known custom is removing footwear when entering a home.

The same also applies in traditional-style restaurants, hotel rooms, ryokan ( Japanese inns ), minshuku (Japanese B&Bs) and onsen ( hot springs ). You should also take off your shoes before entering a changing room in clothing stores.

Japanese culture makes a clear distinction between soto (outside) and uchi (inside), and this is where this custom originates.

Japanese culture makes a clear distinction between soto (outside) and uchi (inside)

Often you’ll exchange your outside footwear to indoor slippers. This is done at the genkan - an area directly inside the entrance, designed as the place where external footwear is removed and left.

This is probably the main social faux pas that (even the very polite) Japanese will actually pick you up on. Whether in private or in public.  Don't sweat it if someone does point out your error. You won't be the first, or last to do it.

#3 How to use chopsticks

There's a lot of etiquette involved when it comes to using chopsticks. Here are three essential chopstick manners to get your started:

• Don’t place your chopsticks vertically in your rice/food (this is a funeral ritual).
• Don’t pass food using your chopsticks to someone else's chopsticks.
• Don’t point with your chopsticks, or use them to pull dishes towards you.

Photo:   Jasmin777 from Pixabay

In Japan there is no such thing as tipping.

(No more trying to remember what percentage you are supposed to tip!)

Don't make the mistake of trying to tip, thinking you are being extra considerate. You are more likely to offend the person you're offering the tip to.

A (little-known) tipping exception

There is a little-known exception to the ‘no-tipping’ rule.

When you’re on a guided tour (such as a one-day coach trip), it is acceptable to tip your guide at the end of the tour if you especially enjoyed it. A modest monetary gesture is fine. If you’re unsure how much - then see what the locals are tipping and judge by that.

#5 Using your phone in public

Photo: Tore F on Unsplash

It's not the done thing to talk on the phone when using public transport. Don't be surprised if staff ask you to stop. It's fine to use it to play games (provided the sound is off), browse the web, check your messages, etc.

On Japan's shinkansen bullet trains, you'll see signs in the carriages asking you to take and make calls only in the vestibules between cars, or in a designated areas.

Don't watch videos or listen to music out loud in public

Using phones in restaurants or cafes is considered impolite and inconsiderate of others. If you must make or take a call, step outside to do it. Don't watch videos or listen to music out loud in public.

#6 Don't eat and walk on the street

A friend and I munching on Minion donuts in Universal Studios Japan

Although you do see people sometimes eating on the street in front of yatai (street food stalls), walking along and eating or drinking is a no-no.

Don’t eat or drink on public transport. However, on long distance journeys eating ekiben (‘station bento’) boxed meals on bullet trains is considered a part of the experience - so enjoy it.

Eating outside within the grounds of theme parks (like I am doing in the photo above, taken at Universal Studios Japan ) is also fine.

#7 Learn a little Japanese

Even if you can't speak Japanese, it's often easy to get the gist of public information signs

Don’t expect that most people in Japan will be able to speak English. They won't.  Besides, it's polite (and easy) to learn at least a few useful Japanese words and phrases.

No one will expect you to be fluent, but any Japanese you do use will show you to be a considerate traveller and be welcomed. Just use whatever Japanese you have - no matter how little that may be.

Don’t expect most people in Japan to speak English

Also, the Japanese are particularly adept at being attuned to the needs of others , especially when those in need are customers. It's called omoiyari.  So even if you can't always express yourself in their language, you can work on the basis that in most instances, the locals will do their best to understand and assist you.

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Nevertheless, a small amount of well-chosen Japanese can go a long way during your travels in Japan. If you'd find a reference of 32 key travel-related Japanese words and phrases handy, then check out my first Japan travel guide .

Not being able to speak Japanese is the No.1 concern of most visitors to Japan. Our (most popular) post How To Travel in Japan (When You Don't Speak Japanese) will guide you further on the subject.

BONUS: Tips for sustainable travel in Japan

One thing we can all do as travellers in Japan is to take care to tread lightly, meaning to travel as sustainably as possible.

Travellers in Japan often comment on how clean the streets, stations and facilities are as they travel around. But one area where Japan needs to do better is to take steps to curb its overuse of single-use plastics.

As a visitor to the country there are a few simple ideas you can try that will help improve the situation. These include travelling outside of the golden route ( Tokyo , Osaka , Kyoto ), hiring local guides, and proactively asking about sustainable options when staying at hotels, eating out, and elsewhere.

Japan sustainability expert and podcaster JJ Walsh has written a detailed introduction to sustainable travel in Japan . It includes some of the steps you can take when visiting Japan that will help you make the most of your travels, while minimizing your environmental impact .

FURTHER READING: 5 Insider Tips for Sustainable Travel in Japan

What would you add to this list?

These are just a few essential customs to be aware of and observe. 

There are plenty more, which I'll probably explore more widely in another, more in-depth article. In the meantime, what other Japanese customs or points of etiquette do you think are essential or would add to this list? Leave a comment below.

Japanese Etiquette: 27 Useful Tips for First-Time Travelers

When traveling to Japan, you might feel a little surprised with all the differences between Japanese society and your own. Once you land, you will have the feeling of being in another world and it’s perfectly normal. The best thing about traveling to Japan is having the opportunity to see a whole different country with some rules that you didn’t expect at all. To help you with your first time in Japan, I wrote this list of some implicit Japanese rules.

So what are the most common do’s and don’ts in Japan?

If you are curious about this subject, keep reading, and you’ll find some interesting facts that might surprise you.

Be careful when showing affection in public

The Japanese people are not very comfortable with physical touch , especially seniors. When visiting Japan, consider that if you don’t want to get some weird looks. Avoid kissing and hugging your partner, and you might want to avoid holding hands too. Hold on to your partner’s arm instead because it feels much more natural to the eyes of the Japanese. If you’re not sure of what could be acceptable or not, just avoid all physical contact until you’re both alone in your hotel room for example.

Don’t blow your nose in public

If you need to blow your nose in Japan, you must be careful. Blowing your nose in public is not acceptable , and you will never see a Japanese blowing his or her nose in public. Instead, you have to go to the restroom if you want to blow your nose .

While searching for a place where you can blow your nose in private, it is perfectly acceptable to sniffle in Japan . If you ever get annoyed with all the sniffling on the train, just remember that the Japanese are just trying to be polite.

More information about this in my post Why Don’t Japanese Blow Their Nose?

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Wear a mask when you’re sick

Did you ever wonder why you see lots of Japanese people wearing a mask? Believe me, it is not because they’re maniacs about viruses and afraid of catching diseases. The Japanese are very respectful of others and if they are sick, they immediately start wearing a mask to avoid passing their virus to others .

For Western society, it might seem a little weird (even if this is slowly starting to change due to the coronavirus), but in Japan, it is perfectly normal to wear masks in public. So, if you ever get sick while in Japan, try to be respectful of others and wear a mask too. Our Japanese friends will appreciate it, and you can find original masks everywhere now. If you’re looking for some kawaii designs, you can take a look at our masks sold at Redbubble .

Don’t walk and smoke at the same time

If you’re a smoker traveling to Japan, you should pay attention to the following rule. In Japan, it is considered dangerous to walk and smoke at the same time because you can bump into someone and burn them with your cigarette. More than just a manner, it is a rule in Japan and if you don’t respect it, you will have to pay a fine .

In the streets, look for designated smoking areas and use them . Make sure you don’t smoke outside these areas because the police is always controlling the streets. Therefore, there’s a huge chance you’ll get caught if you don’t follow the rules.

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Don’t litter in Japan

Japan is one of the cleanest countries you’ll ever see in your whole life and still, there aren’t many trash cans where you can dispose of your garbage. As usual, Japanese society is based on the respect of others so people don’t litter anywhere like you probably have seen in other countries.

During your trip to Japan, keep this in mind and make sure you carry a plastic bag with you at all times . This can be extremely useful if you don’t find a trash can (and that’s going to happen a lot). If want a cool system, you can buy a small bag dispenser on Amazon that you can clip to your backpack . Also, keep in mind that the trash cans you’ll find right next to vending machines in Japan are meant for the trash from the vending machines items , so avoid putting your garbage in there.

Don’t stare at people

The Japanese people are very shy and introverted , and they don’t feel comfortable when someone is staring. I mean, even in your own country, it is probably a little rude to stare, but for the Japanese, it is even worse.

While in Japan, you will be surprised by lots of different things and costumes that you are not used to, but that’s not a valid reason to stare at our Japanese fellows. Just make sure to respect them while visiting their country.

Don’t shake hands (bow instead)

As you probably know, the Japanese don’t greet like in Western society . To correct way to greet in Japan is to use the bow , but not any bow (that would be too easy). To make it simple, there are 3 different types of bows :

The deep bow was used a lot during the feudal period, but it is extremely rare nowadays. Only elderly people use it when greeting the emperor.

The medium bow is considered the formal bow and you need to bend to 45 degrees . The respect is proportional to the time spent bowing, the longer you keep this position the more respect you pay to the person. As a general rule, you should keep a formal bow for 2 or 3 seconds .

The light bow is the most common of all. You usually bend to around 20 degrees and you keep the bow for 1 second or so .

In any bow, the hands should be kept down at the sides .

Don’t point with your finger

As a general rule, the Japanese don’t point with their finger because it is considered rude . Instead, they gently point with an open hand to what they want to show you. So if you ask for directions to a Japanese, please keep in mind not to use your finger, and don’t be surprised if you see an open hand directed to where you should go.

Don’t be late

The Japanese people are extremely punctual, and they never show up late . If they do, it is probably because of an emergency, a real one. I’ve never seen a society where punctuality was so important like in Japan.

When you think of all the millions of people who rush all day in Tokyo while using public transportation, you could think that being late is normal. But not in Japan. Even the Shinkansen (bullet train) is practically never late with an annual average delay of less than 60 seconds!

Bear in mind that if you have to meet someone in Japan, you have to get there before the expected time because if you’re late, even 5 minutes, the other person will start thinking that something terrible happened to you. And if nothing awful happened, the person will feel disrespected because you didn’t show consideration for the appointment you had. As a general rule, arriving 10 minutes earlier is perfectly normal in Japan .

Be aware of elevators’ etiquette

In Japan, even using the elevator has some basic rules instead of just entering and pushing the right floor button for you. You must know that when you enter an elevator, it is the person that is closest to the buttons that is supposed to push them for all the other persons inside .

Also, if you’re in front of the doors, you are supposed to leave the elevator to let the others out even if it is not your floor, and then get back again. The same thing is valid for public transportation too and almost everywhere when the places are crowded.

It is just a little of common sense and thinking of others first. You must not let our Japanese fellows squeeze through a wave of tourists to continue their way, instead, step aside and let them pass. Remember, Japanese are never late so it can be really annoying to have a tourist that blocks the way.

Always queue in line

When you know that Japan has around 126 million people, you could expect that people would rush like crazy into trains as soon as they open the doors. Once again, not in Japan. Organization is the watchword that makes the whole transportation system work well and when a train arrives, even if there are thousands of people waiting, it all goes smoothly.

So, when you’re visiting Japan, follow the lead of our Japanese friends and queue in line . Believe me, even if the queue is extremely long, it will be incredibly fast compared to the Western countries because it is all well-organized (and also because the Japanese don’t want to be late anyway).

Don’t make calls while using public transportation

Making phone calls in trains, buses or any other kind of public transportation is a big no-no . Does this mean that the Japanese don’t use their phones? Of course not! You will see them using their phones everywhere but quietly. They will be texting, looking at social media, etc, but no phone calls because that will disturb others , and you already know that the Japanese respect others above all.

So when you get in trains put your phone in silence mode and make sure you respect the calm that reigns in the place.

Take off your backpack while on the train

Wearing a backpack in public transportation can be a little tricky , especially if it concerns the one you use for your trip. Therefore, you are expected to put down your backpack and hold it in your hands . Remember that the Japanese use public transportation every day and having a backpack on your back can be really annoying for everyone around you, particularly in a crowded train. Since this is a recurrent problem, the Japanese now have signs to make tourists understand the importance of this simple rule for the well-being of others .

Public transportation is where the Japanese take some time to rest after work so you should be quiet on trains, buses, etc. We’ve seen that you should put your phone in silent mode, but you should also avoid any other kind of noise that can disturb others .

Don’t walk and eat (or drink)

As a general rule of thumb, walking and doing other things at the same time is not accepted in Japan . We already saw that walking and smoking at the same time is forbidden by law, but eating and drinking while you walk is also a big no-no in Japan. Imagine that you bump into someone with your food full of sauce and you stain his or her clothes, this could be a big problem particularly when people are rushing to get on time.

If you buy some street food, keep in mind to eat it while standing still near that place or to take it back with you to your hotel for example. You should never eat and walk unless you want to draw attention to yourself. The same thing is valid for drinking and walking.

Use chopsticks correctly

Using chopsticks is naturally tricky, but there are also a few rules to know if you don’t want to get some weird looks from our Japanese friends.

First, remember that you should never pass food from chopstick to chopstick . This is not accepted in Japan because it is related to funeral rituals so you better avoid that. The same happens if you stick your chopsticks vertically into your rice. Don’t do that .

Another thing you should avoid at all costs is to stab food with your chopstick , even if food is a little far away from you and it would be very convenient to stab and get it.

So if you don’t want to offend the Japanese people, avoid at least passing food from chopstick to chopstick, stabbing food with your chopstick, or sticking your chopstick into your bowl of rice. You can start practicing at home right away if you have a pair of chopsticks, and if you don’t have one already, there are several models available on Amazon like these natural wood chopsticks .

I also wrote a full article about chopsticks if you need more detailed information.

Don’t pour the drink into your own glass

In Japan, drinking is a common social activity and, as any social activity in Japan, it has its own rules. If you’re drinking with other people (especially with Japanese friends), you must not pour the drink into your own glass . Japanese manners say that you should pour the drink into everyone’s glass , but not yours. Instead, put down the bottle and wait for your Japanese friend to pour the drink for you . When he or she pours the drink, you should grab your glass with both hands and thank him/her.

If you forget this rule, you will receive some surprised looks towards you.

Cheer before drinking

You probably have seen this in Japanese movies or dramas without even knowing that is a big rule in Japanese manners regarding drinking. If you drink with someone you must always cheer before drinking . The Japanese word for cheers is kanpai so try to remember it and use it on your next drinking party in Japan. If you forget to do this before drinking, you will be disrespectful and considered selfish. As a general rule, the Japanese order the same drink for the first round .

Use polite words when eating

If you have seen some videos about food in Japan, you probably noticed that people always say the same thing before eating. It is the word itadakimasu (いただきます) and that can be roughly translated to “I receive”. Itadakimasu is a polite word to express gratitude towards the person who prepared it . Also, at the end, you are expected to say goshisousamadesu (ごちそうさまです) which is also a polite expression to express your gratitude again. It can be translated to “it was a fest”.

Don’t dip the rice in the sauce

You will probably want to try the true Japanese sushi once in Japan and you’re right because there’s nothing better than traditional sushi. Yet, be careful with the sauce and a type of sushi called Nigiri because there’s also a big no-no while using both. If you try the nigiri sushi, you should never dip the rice into the sauce . Instead, you should dip it upside down and make sure that only the fish touches the sauce . Having parts of rice floating in the sauce is not well seen in Japan so try to keep that in mind.

When you get to Japan, it is a good idea to forget your Western good manners because the truth is that they probably don’t match the Japanese society. Tipping can be very common in your country, but in Japan, you should never do it. The Japanese don’t like tipping, and they can’t even understand why would you do that. In Japan, working hard and doing a good job is their daily life. For the Japanese, is completely normal to offer the best service possible to a customer so, if you try to pay more for a job that they are already paid for, they will be confused and won’t understand your gesture, or worse, they can consider that as an insult.

Don’t use the refresh towel on your face (Oshibori)

When you go to the restaurant, you will probably receive a refreshing towel called oshibori . This towel is meant to be used on your hands and not on your face . You will probably see some unconscious tourists using the towel on their faces but don’t be one of them and apply the Japanese manners.

Take off your shoes in Japanese homes

Removing your shoes is not negotiable in Japan , especially in some places like Japanese homes, temples and/or shrines, onsen, and even some traditional restaurants. As a general rule, whenever you see some shelves with footwear by the door, it means that you are meant to remove your shoes. Some places will provide you with slippers to wear inside, but not every single time, so if you’re not comfortable with your socks, I recommend buying new ones before getting to Japan because you will be showing them a lot. 😉

If you want to expand on this subject, you can check my other post “ The real reason why Japanese don’t wear shoes inside “.

Respect the Onsen (hot spring) etiquette

In Japan, the bath is not seen as a way of cleaning, but it is more a way of relaxing . This is why you should never enter a bath without having washed yourself . You are supposed to wash yourself completely outside the bath , and once you’re done, you can then enter the bath and enjoy a relaxing experience.

This rule applies to any kind of bath and especially to public baths or onsen. If you don’t know how to use an onsen in Japan, I already wrote an article on that if you want to read it .

Wear the Yukata or Kimono correctly

While in Japan, you might be tempted to try a kimono or yukata but be aware that there are essential rules you must respect. The most important one is to always wrap the left side over the right side because the other way around ( the right side over the left side) is only used to dress the dead . So, if you don’t want to get the Japanese weird look, try to keep this in mind at all times.

Use toilet slippers only in the restroom

Yes, in Japan people don’t enter the restroom with their shoes, instead, they use toilet slippers . This might seem a little strange for foreigners and tourists, but it is a very simple daily rule in Japan. As we saw before, since you are supposed to remove your shoes when you enter the house, etc, you might think that it’s going to be easy to apply this rule, yet life has shown us that foreigners have problems applying it. The toilet slippers are meant just for the restroom, but it’s not rare to see tourists getting out of the toilet with the slippers on. Please avoid doing so. Even if the Japanese are now used to this, it is better to leave the slippers where they are meant to be. 🙂

Cover your umbrella when needed

If you have done some research about Japan, you probably know that there is a rainy season and you’re going to get wet if you travel during that period. This is one of the reasons why umbrellas are so common in Japan and therefore there’s a rule that applies to umbrellas.

Instead of carrying your wet umbrella with you everywhere, you should use a plastic cover (a sort of plastic sleeve) and put your umbrella inside it. Imagine how annoying it can get if everyone has his or her wet umbrella on a crowded train. In restaurants or stores, you will see that there is a place to put your umbrella (generally at the entrance) or they will provide you with one of these plastic covers if you don’t have one. If they do, you will have to use it because this is not an option . This prevents you from spreading water drops everywhere, making the floor wet and slippery, which will inevitably annoy other people.

If you prefer to avoid the rainy season, check out my previous article about the Japan weather and the best time to visit Japan .

Last Piece of Advice

I guess this might seem like a long list of things to remember while you’re in Japan, but remember that most of them are common sense and if you just keep in mind to be respectful at any time, you will do fine. Also, the Japanese are used to tourists (especially in big cities) and they will be patient with you if you make some mistakes. And if you feel completely lost with all the Japanese manners, just look around you and follow what other Japanese do .

Good luck 🙂

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Etiquette Tips For Visiting Japan

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Japan is known for its highly structured society, governed by an unspoken set of strict etiquette rules. This can be daunting for newcomers, but fret not – the Japanese don’t expect outsiders to know all the rules of the game, although a basic understanding is helpful. These Japanese etiquette tips will stand you in good stead. Did you know you can now travel with Culture Trip? Book now and join one of our premium small-group tours to discover the world like never before.

Handling chopsticks.

Possibly the number-one rule of Japanese etiquette for tourists, hence why it tops this list: there are two places to lay your chopsticks down on the table: either flat across your bowl, or leaning on the chopstick rest. Never leave your chopsticks sticking straight up in your rice bowl and never pass food from chopsticks to chopsticks: both of these mimic funeral rituals and are considered disrespectful. If you want to pass food to someone, use the back end of your chopsticks to place it in a dish for them.

Don’t Be a Picky Eater

The Japanese hate to be wasteful, and picking things out of your meal to leave aside (bones excluded) is considered disrespectful. It offends not only your host but also the farmers who cultivated the vegetables and the animals who gave up their lives for the sake of your dish. It’s also polite to sample a little from each dish on the table.

Don’t Fill Your Own Glass

You’ve probably heard the expression kampai , which is the Japanese equivalent to cheers . But what else do you know about drinking alcohol in Japan? For starters, do not fill your own glass – it implies that your host or dining partners are ungracious. Wait for someone else to fill it, and be sure to return the favour. If possible, try and raise your glass a little off the table while it’s being filled – this is very formal Japanese etiquette, however, so if you’re just dining with friends it’s best to wait and see what everyone else does first.

Say Itadakimasu!

A meal at a Japanese table is not a free-for-all. Politely wait for everyone to be seated before saying itadakimasu (“I humbly receive”) together. At the end of the meal, be sure to thank the cook by saying gochisō-sama deshita (“That was a great feast”). Your host will definitely appreciate this gesture.

Give Up Your Seat

When using public transport, be sure to give up your seat to those who need it more. Be careful not to use those seats reserved for the elderly and disabled, as well as pregnant women and those with small children. Many pregnant Japanese women stay so slim that they must carry pink tags to signify their right to reserved seating – so keep an eye out for them as well!

Don’t Walk and Eat

In general, walking while eating or drinking is frowned upon, although it is acceptable in the case of some foods, especially during festive occasions. You’ll see most people carrying their takeout in secure bags to eat later, or finishing their drinks while standing at the vending machine. And in Japan, they’ve taken bad public transport etiquette one step further: drinking and eating are actually prohibited, so you won’t ever have to discreetly grimace at the waft of someone’s freshly opened katsu curry box.

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Forget the Tip

Tipping is not common practice in Japan. Restaurants or other service providers will usually have an additional fee set by their establishment built into the bill. If you do feel the need to give some money to your home-stay family or to tip an especially helpful maid at your accommodations, place the money in an envelope first – it’s bad manners to place a tip directly into someone’s hand.

Use the Tray

Many stores will have small trays in which to place the money when paying for an item, rather than handing it directly to a cashier. If you spot such a tray be sure to put the money in there, because disregarding it is somewhat rude. Also keep in mind that most people pay with cash and few places accept credit cards besides the “superstores” or expensive restaurants and hotels. Always be sure to carry enough cash with you to cover your expenses.

Present Your Card

Rules for tourists are numerous, but if you’re in Japan on business there are even more rules to remember. If you have a business card or meishi , present it to your new acquaintance at the beginning of your meeting (bonus points for having it printed in both Japanese and English). Hold the card in both hands when receiving. Either place the card face up on the table in front of you for reference, or tuck it safely away in a business card holder – nowhere else. It’s also okay to ask how to pronounce someone’s name at this point (but never write on the card in their presence)!

Take Off Your Shoes

Always take off your shoes when entering someone’s home – this is standard Japanese etiquette. A Japanese home will always have slippers for guests to wear, so you don’t have to worry about getting your socks dirty. Some temples and restaurants might also ask patrons to remove their shoes before entering.

Sit Properly

It’s very common in homes, and even in some traditional restaurants, to sit on the floor around a low table to eat, rather than in Western-style chairs. For formal occasions, both genders kneel down and sit up straight. For more casual situations, women may sit with both legs to one side, and men can sit in the cross-legged seated position that many cultures are familiar with.

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Unwrapping Japan: Mastering Etiquette for the Savvy Tourist

I magine stepping into a world where tradition weaves through the fabric of modern life, a place where each gesture holds meaning and respect is the cornerstone of society. Welcome to Japan, a country that captivates with its contrasts and charms with its customs. But for the uninitiated American traveler, navigating this rich tapestry of manners can be as bewildering as it is beautiful.

• Over 31 million visitors need to navigate Japan's etiquette maze for a seamless experience.
• Public dining norms in Japan favor stationary snacking, not on-the-go munching.
• "Respecting Japanese customs is more than good manners; it's a bridge to understanding," says Hiroshi Horiuchi.
• Learn the dos and don’ts to enhance your travels and embrace cultural harmony.
• Immerse yourself in Japanese culture with wisdom, wit, and a touch of humor.

Why Etiquette Matters in Japan 🎎

According to a 2019 survey by the Japan National Tourism Organization , over 31 million foreign tourists have found their way to Japan's shores.

Each one represents an opportunity for cultural exchange, and in Japan, etiquette is the currency of interaction.

Fact: In Japan, stationary snacking is the social standard, contrary to the bustling street food scenes of other global destinations.

Navigating the Cultural Landscape

First impressions: greetings and gestures.

The Japanese bow , a gesture as intricate as it is emblematic, varies in depth and duration, depending on the situation.

As a traveler, mirroring this gesture, even in its simplest form, shows an acknowledgment of local customs and an openness to engage respectfully.

Money Matters: The Art of Transaction

When making purchases, embrace the small tray at registers, known as a coin tray .

It's not just a quaint custom; it's a dance of decorum, avoiding the supposed impoliteness of handing money directly to cashiers.

Dining Decorum: Beyond the Chopsticks

Fact: Sidewalk snacking is a faux pas. Here, one is expected to pause, perch on a bench, and then proceed with their palate pleasures.

"Japan is known for its unique culture and traditions. As a tourist, respecting their customs not only makes your trip more enjoyable but also helps promote cross-cultural understanding." - Hiroshi Horiuchi, renowned travel guide author.

The Unspoken Dance of Public Life

Japan's unwritten rules govern the ebb and flow of daily life.

From the hushed carriages of the Shinkansen to the orderly queues at the city bus, there's a communal rhythm that, once understood, allows you to move in harmony with the local populace.

Public Transportation: Move with the Masses

Patience is a virtue, and in Japan, it's also a requirement.

Boarding a train? Wait for others to alight. On an escalator? Stand to one side, the left in Tokyo, the right in Osaka, and allow others to pass.

Recycle Right: A Country That Cares

The scarcity of public trash cans might baffle, but it's a nod to Japan's deep-seated environmental ethos.

Learn to sort your refuse as the locals do: burnable, non-burnable, and recyclable.

American Tourists: Bridging the Cultural Gap

As Americans visiting Japan, there's a kaleidoscope of customs to consider.

From onsens (hot springs) where tattoos might stir stares, to the tatami mats where one's feet should never tread, awareness is your ally.

Parting Words of Wisdom

Mastering the intricacies of Japanese etiquette is not just a matter of politeness; it's the key to unlocking the full richness of your travel experience in the Land of the Rising Sun . As we've explored in this comprehensive guide, Japan's customs and traditions run deep, intricately woven into the fabric of daily life.

From the respectful bow to the artful handling of money, from the importance of stationary dining to the harmonious dance of public life, each element of Japanese etiquette tells a story. It's a story of cultural reverence, of respect for one another and the environment, and of a society that thrives on harmony and order.

Ingraining these etiquettes is not just about blending in; it's about respect. It's about an American abroad not just seeing the sights but truly understanding them. We have the privilege and responsibility to be respectful guests in this captivating nation. By embracing these customs, we not only show our reverence for Japan's heritage but also create meaningful connections with its people.

This understanding is the bridge that connects us as global citizens, fostering empathy and appreciation for the diversity of our world. So, as you embark on your journey through Japan, armed with newfound knowledge and cultural sensitivity, relish every moment.

Immerse yourself in the rich tapestry of traditions, explore with curiosity, and savor the unique flavors of this remarkable country. Your understanding and respect will be reciprocated with warmth and hospitality , turning your visit into an unforgettable cultural exchange that transcends borders and enriches your soul.

FAQs Based on the Blog Post

Why is it important to understand etiquette in japan.

Understanding etiquette in Japan is crucial for showing respect for the culture, enhancing your travel experience , and facilitating smoother interactions during your stay.

Is it considered rude to eat while walking in Japan?

Yes, traditionally, it is considered impolite to eat or drink while walking in public in Japan. Most people stop at a spot to eat or find a bench, especially near vending machines.

How should I handle money when making a purchase in Japan?

In Japan, you should place your money on the small tray provided at the cash register, known as a coin tray, instead of handing it directly to the cashier.

Can I tip for good service in Japan?

Tipping is not customary in Japan and can sometimes be seen as offensive, except in high-end establishments where a service charge is already included in the bill.

How should I behave in a Japanese temple or shrine?

Be respectful in a Japanese temple or shrine: follow posted rules, take photos only where permitted, wash hands at the purification fountain, and be mindful of the sacred nature of the space.

What should I do with my trash when there are no public bins available?

Carry your trash with you until you find the correct disposal area, and make sure to separate it according to local recycling rules.

What is the proper etiquette for using chopsticks in Japan?

Do not stick chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice or pass food directly from your chopsticks to someone else's, as these actions resemble funeral practices. 

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15 things to know before going to Japan

Mar 31, 2024 • 7 min read

Be ready for a visit to Japan with these tips on health, safety and etiquette © pat138241 / Getty Images

Japan has a reputation as an etiquette-bound place that can be intimidating for first-time visitors.

The truth is, though, that the traditions here are no more formal or constricting than in many other destinations around the world. Moreover, most locals are more than willing to help out or give foreign travelers a pass for any perceived faux pas.

As with just about anything in life, expectation management is key. Put your mind at ease with our top tips for smooth traveling in Japan .

1. Book accommodation in advance (and arrive at the right time)

You can probably get a room at a basic business hotel without a reservation in a pinch, but why risk it? Top accommodations can book up weeks or even months in advance, so it's best to plan ahead.

Particularly busy travel periods include the first week of January, cherry blossom season (late March through April, depending on the destination), “Golden Week” (April 29 to May 5) and August.

You should also keep in mind that smaller inns or ryokan (traditional Japanese inns) often have fixed check-in times outside of which staff won’t be present, and rooms won’t be made up. Coordinate your arrival time in advance.

2. Pack light for a visit to Japan

Since hotel rooms in Japan tend to be small, especially in cities, there is little room for large suitcases – which can also be a pain to wrangle on public transport . Packing on the lighter side is always a good idea, but especially advisable for Japan.

Note that religious sites such as Buddhist temples and Shintō shrines don’t have dress codes. High-end restaurants, bars and clubs sometimes do, but that usually just means no sleeveless shirts or sandals on men.

Keep in mind that you might find yourself sitting on the floor when dining out, which can be uncomfortable in short (or tight) clothing.

3. Buy a data-heavy SIM card at the airport

Finding your way around in Japan can be tricky. The address system is notoriously difficult to navigate – even for locals – so smartphones with navigation apps have been a real boon for travelers.

This means you're likely to be using a substantial amount of data getting from place to place, so buy a data-heavy SIM card at the airport upon arrival. 

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4. Bring shoes you can easily slip on and off

Comfortable walking shoes are a must. You’ll also likely have to take your shoes off frequently at religious sites, traditional inns and some restaurants – you’ll thank yourself later if you pack shoes that are easy to slip on and off.

Since you’ll be slipping into a pair of communal slippers when you take your own shoes off, many visitors prefer to wear socks.

5. Learn how to use a bidet toilet

Called “washlets,” Japan’s high-tech, electronic bidet toilets will wash and dry your delicate parts with the touch of a button. (Don’t worry about any language barrier; the pictograms on the buttons are easy to understand).

Other toilet customs in Japan might throw you for a loop. Motion-sensor-activated sound machines are intended to conceal, um, sensitive noises. Also expect dedicated toilet slippers in shoes-off establishments.

Note that there is frequently a lack of towels and hand dryers (locals carry small cloths with them for this reason).

6. Come prepared for the weather

Summers in Japan are hot and humid, which can mean a real risk of heatstroke. Carry water with you, and a folding umbrella with UV blocking is useful – and does double duty in case of a sudden shower.

Late June is the start of the annual rainy season, when it can rain without end for days; this can last a few weeks or through most of July.

Rains, as well as punishing winds, are likely again during typhoon season , which runs from September through October (earlier in Okinawa ).

Typhoons can cause serious travel disruption; monitor the situation with the  Japan Meteorological Agency ’s storm and other weather warnings, which are available in English. Winters can get chilly, and  Tōhoku and Hokkaidō up north can get huge dumps of snow.

Japan’s ubiquitous convenience stores are handy for weather-related necessities like umbrellas, hats, cooling wipes and pocket warmers.

7. Make sure to carry cash...

In rural Japan and at older family-run businesses in cities, credit cards may not be accepted. It’s wise to assume you’ll need to pay cash at country ryokan and smaller restaurants and shops; stock up when you’re in a town with an ATM (cashpoint).

To pay as the Japanese do, place your cash or card in the small tray at the register rather than handing either to the cashier.

8. ...But don’t worry about tipping

Though tour guides who regularly take foreign tourists around might expect extra, Japan has no custom of tipping, and an attempt to add to your bill will more often than not fluster or embarrass staff.

In lieu of tipping, some bars and restaurants will charge a flat-rate service fee, usually around ¥300–500 per person; others, typically fancy ones, will automatically add a 10% service charge to the bill.

9. Learn the art of queueing in Japan

The Japanese are big on queues, forming neat lines everywhere from check-out counters to train platforms. (Regarding the latter: after the train doors open, it’s everyone for themselves when it comes to scoring a seat.)

10. Stand to the left (or to the right)

Always ride on one side of the escalator – but which side depends on where you are. In Kanto and eastwards, it’s to the left; in Kansai and westwards, it’s to the right. (The dividing point is somewhere just west of Nagoya ).

Incidentally, train operators want passengers to stand on both sides of the escalator and refrain from walking altogether, even if commuters have so far shrugged at these guidelines.

11. Note when the last train leaves

City subways run until 1am at the very latest. If you miss the last train for the night, the alternative is to catch a taxi, which can be expensive. 

12. Avoid the morning commute in Tokyo

For Tokyoites , the morning commute is a contact sport. On weekdays from 7:30am to 9am, millions squeeze into trains across the city, sometimes helped along by station staff who make sure everyone’s packed in.

Shinjuku Station, the busiest in the world, sees an average of over 3.5 million commuters daily; there are more than 200 exits leading in and out of the complex.

13. Eating in public is generally a no-no in Japan

It’s considered bad form to eat in public, especially while walking. Exceptions include the shinkansen (bullet train) and other reserved-seat limited-express trains, where it is customary to eat a bentō (boxed meal) on board; plus at festivals or market streets with food vendors; on a picnic; and of course if you're eating ice cream.

It’s also okay to take sips from a resealable beverage container, like a water bottle.

14. Know what to do in an earthquake or tsunami

Japan is one of the most seismically active places on the planet. While strong earthquakes are rare, minor temblors happen all the time. If this occurs during your time here, stay calm and take your cue from those around you.

Head under a table or stand in a doorway if the shaking picks up; strict building codes generally keep harm to a minimum.

Rarer but more dangerous tsunami can follow a significant quake. Should this occur, listen for tsunami warnings and get to higher ground fast if you are near the coast. 

15. Learn some Japanese lingo 

English is widely spoken in cities and around major tourist attractions; in rural areas, though, it can be hit or miss. Some Japanese words that will come in handy when dining out: 

• omori (large portion, often free at ramen stalls) • okawari (refill)  • mochikaeri (takeaway)  • tennai de (eat-in)  • onegai shimasu (please). Follow up any of your orders or requests with this; for example, if you want tea, say, “O-cha onegai shimasu.”  • sumimasen (excuse me)  • arigato gozaimasu (thank you). Because it’s a bit of a mouthful, it’s tempting to shorten it to simply arigato . Think of it as the difference between “thank you” and “thanks” and go for the politer “arigato gozaimasu.” • toire (toilet; pronounced “to-ee-rey”)

This article was first published Apr 6, 2022 and updated Mar 31, 2024.

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Warning: American tourists are being profiled. Don't be one of them.

• Tourists are being profiled like never before.
• Sometimes, it's harmless. For example, you might get the English menu at a restaurant.
• But sometimes, the profiling is deadly. If you're pegged as a tourist in some places, you could get drugged, robbed or even killed.

If it feels like you have a target on your back when you're traveling, you might be right. Tourists are being profiled like never before.

Sometimes, it's harmless. For example, I recently walked into a cafe in Rio de Janeiro. Before I could say "Bom dia," a server handed me two menus – in English. 

How did she know? No matter how hard I try, I look like an American, and when I walk into a restaurant, I smile like an American. So, of course, I get the English menu.

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But sometimes, the profiling is deadly. If you're pegged as a tourist in some places, you could get drugged, robbed or even killed. The State Department has issued a warning that numerous U.S. citizens have fallen victim to dating scams in Colombia that can end with them getting seriously hurt – or worse.

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"U.S. citizens should definitely use caution while traveling and try their best not to stick out or be profiled as American while abroad," said John Gobbels, chief operating officer of Medjet , an air medical transport program for travelers.

No one keeps statistics on the number of foreign tourists profiled or killed abroad. But based on the number of new State Department warnings and some of the stories I've been hearing from international travelers, the problem has never been worse.

Although most profiling is just irritating – a hard sell of souvenirs or tip-baiting, for example – some of it can be hazardous. But there are things you can do to avoid being targeted. I'll tell you how in a minute.

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Most profiling is not dangerous – it's just annoying

Reality check: Most tourist profiling is harmless and should come as no surprise to the average traveler.

Ellie Blake was on a tour of Japan with her college alumni association when she began to feel the pressure to buy things. 

"For example, our tour guide took us to a museum shop," she said. "It was a very long stop compared to other sites we visited."

Along the way, the people they met would ask them, "What did you buy?" almost as if they were egging them on to purchase more souvenirs.

Blake believes the tour guides added these shopping breaks because they pegged their group as affluent Americans. It's something I've seen recently in Japan, too. I was on a coastal cruise last summer, and our land tours always seemed to end at a business that sold pricey art.

The solution: Resist the temptation. Better yet, choose a tour where they put the attractions – not the shopping – first. (If you're on a guided tour, always ask about the shopping opportunities. If there are too many, you may want to select another tour.)

Sometimes, the profiling is scary

You can't always walk away. Consider what happened to Ariel Figg recently when she booked a last-minute tour in the Dominican Republic.

One day, the guides detoured to a village, where they took Figg to a gift store filled with trinkets and pressured her to buy local artwork. She refused.

At the end, she offered the guides a generous tip . "They counted the money in front of us, scoffed at our faces, and told us that, as Americans, we should pay more because we can afford it," she said. 

Figg said she should have known better. After all, she's a travel coach , and before taking a last-minute tour, she would have told her clients to research the tour operator carefully. 

I had a similarly awkward moment recently in Santiago, Chile. After having lunch at a small vegetarian restaurant, I stood up to pay. The server brought over a mobile point-of-sale system. She asked me to enter a tip amount in front of her and then tap my card to pay. There was no apparent option for "no tip." 

Figg is right – avoiding this more forceful kind of profiling is easy if you do your homework. I learned my lesson about restaurant tipping in Chile and ordered takeout after that. And Figg will never take a last-minute tour again without doing her homework.

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Profiling can also turn deadly

"Americans have been targeted overseas by criminals and sometimes by dishonest businesses, simply for being Americans," explained Michael O’Rourke, CEO of Advanced Operational Concepts , a security consulting firm.

Why? He said thanks to Hollywood, people in many foreign countries perceive that all Americans are rich. The perception has some validity when compared to income levels and the standard of living in other nations.

Fortunately, the profiling rarely leads to death. But experts like O'Rourke warn that in some parts of the world, people are desperate enough to use force against a visitor. And especially at a time when Americans are going to far-flung places, it's important to stay aware of your surroundings. 

I've never been attacked because of my nationality, but I've been followed. A few years ago, I was in an ancient village in a remote part of Turkey. I turned a corner and was face-to-face with a group of young men hanging out and smoking. They looked at me and said, "American! Hi!" and then started to follow me. 

I wasn't sure what they wanted and didn't want to find out, so I turned around and walked back toward the town square – and safety. 

But maybe I should have stayed.

“Profiling is not always negative,” said Thomas Swick, author of the memoir "Falling into Place: A Story of Love, Poland, and the Making of a Travel Writer."

Swick remembers visiting Vietnam in the early 1990s. Students would approach him and ask if he was American. 

"When I told them I was, they politely asked if they could practice their English. Then we’d go off to a café for an hour of conversation, which was as beneficial to me as a travel writer as it was to them," he recalled.

He makes a valid point. Being recognized as an American when you're abroad can make your next trip more interesting – as long as you're being recognized for the right reasons.

Elliott's tips for avoiding profiling 

If you're traveling abroad, here are a few strategies to avoid being profiled as an American.

◾ Dress down : Avoid wearing USA T-shirts and American sports jerseys. And since this is an election year, I have to say it: No political caps or shirts, please. You could be putting yourself in danger. Wear muted colors and avoid sweatshirts with hoodies, and you will at least keep them guessing.

◾ Mind your manners : Kitty Werner, a former airline reservation agent who has lived overseas, said nothing gives away your nationality faster than your etiquette – or lack of etiquette. That's true in Europe, but in places like the Middle East or Japan, your casual attire screams "American!" "You can tell an American tourist immediately by their manners," she said.

◾ Shut up : “Many tourists are too loud," said Harding Bush, associate director of security for Global Rescue . "Be mindful of your volume and avoid drawing attention to yourself." Your noise level is a dead giveaway and may also mark you as an American tourist.

Christopher Elliott  is an author, consumer advocate, and journalist. He founded  Elliott Advocacy , a nonprofit organization that helps solve consumer problems. He publishes  Elliott Confidential , a travel newsletter, and the  Elliott Report , a news site about customer service. If you need help with a consumer problem, you can  reach him here  or email him at  [email protected] .

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A Feline Scientist Explains Why Your Cat Might Actually Like You

Cats are more social than they are often given credit for. Can you help yours access its inner dog?

By Emily Anthes

Emily Anthes has a slightly skittish dog and a highly gregarious cat.

This article is part of our Pets special section on scientists’ growing interest in our animal companions.

Over the last two decades, a flurry of scientific studies have demonstrated, over and over again, that dogs are social savants, highly attuned to human cues.

But even as canine cognitive science flourished, few researchers bothered to probe the social skills of cats. After all, dogs were descended from the social gray wolf and had been intentionally engineered to perform specific roles alongside humans. Cats, on the other hand, were descended from the solitary African wildcat and had not been under the same selective pressure from people. They were viewed as antisocial and also, for good measure, uncooperative, making them unappealing research subjects .

In recent years, however, a handful of undeterred scientists have produced a small body of research suggesting that we have underestimated cats’ social skills, and that interest is growing. “I see more and more papers each year,” said Kristyn Vitale, an animal behavior scientist at Unity Environmental University in Maine. “We’ve just got a lot of catching up to do.”

Dr. Vitale, who has three cats of her own, often collaborates with Monique Udell, the director of the human-animal interaction lab at Oregon State University. Dr. Vitale spoke to The New York Times about their research — and about her dream study of cat cognition.

The following has been edited and condensed for clarity.

What do people tend to get wrong about cats?

The biggest thing that I see is people stating that cats are not social creatures, or that social interaction isn’t important for cats. Cats are really flexible with their social behavior. So it’s highly individual, and based off the cat and their personal experiences.

Cats have to experience socialization with humans within a key time period of their lives in order for healthy social behavior toward people to develop. So if you have a cat that has never encountered a person before, especially early on as a kitten, they’re going to grow up fearing humans, because they never learned that humans were something that could be a source of good things.

When given the right experiences, we do see that companion cats can definitely form bonds with their owners, these bonds can be strong, and they can be stable over time.

You’ve taught kitten training classes. What does that entail?

Very much like a dog class, we did things like sit, come when called, go to mat, walk on harness and leash. For the final class, people would teach a trick that they wanted to do with their cat. So I had people teaching jump through a hoop. I think the most advanced behavior was sit and stay while going out on a kayak on a lake.

We had over 50 kittens and their owners. Kittens, 3 to 8 months old, were able to come to this environment, do training, do socialization, and we never had a fight break out. A lot of it is managing the situation, watching cats’ behavior. When a cat starts showing signs of stress, it’s time to end it and send them home.

What are you working on now?

We’re collecting data on cat-assisted interventions for children with developmental differences. So children bring their pet cats into our location at Oregon State University and learn how to train their cats, how to read their body language and behavior. We’re looking at whether there are potentially benefits for the child in terms of their physical activity or their social well-being, and then also, on the flip side, if there are any benefits to the cat. Is there a deeper bond that’s formed between the cat and child? Are there differences in social behavior or their ability to read social cues?

What’s your dream study?

We’ve just started exploring the social cognition of pet and shelter cats, but we haven’t really done it with these cats living outdoors. There are the cats that live in Rome, in the Colosseum. In Japan, there are cat islands, which I have visited, where you just have huge groupings of cats living together. I think that would be interesting to look at: How socially intelligent are these cats living outdoors?

What would you like cat owners to know?

We had a research project come out that showed that when you pay attention to cats, cats spend more time with you. I think people all too often get a cat and let it sit in the house and don’t do anything with it. It’s really just about exploring that bond and what they prefer and what you can do together.

Emily Anthes is a science reporter, writing primarily about animal health and science. She also covered the coronavirus pandemic. More about Emily Anthes

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